My very complicated relationship with social media (and why I’m still here anyway)

I have a love/hate relationship with social media. Like… deeply. Some days I’m like ā€œthis is amazing, what a time to be alive.ā€ Other days I want to yeet my phone into the nearest wall and go live in the bush off grid. Because on one hand? I love it. I love seeing what people are building. I love the creativity, the weird little corners of the internet, the fact that someone in rural New Zealand (hi) can connect with someone on the other side of the world and call it Tuesday. That part? Magic.

But also… the trends. The algorithms. The constant ā€œyou should be doing this RIGHT NOWā€ noise. The pressure to perform, keep up, be visible, be strategic, be everything, all at once. And don’t even get me started on the overly polished, slightly soulless content creeping in lately. It can feel heavy. Noisy. Like you’re shouting into a void while being told you’re not shouting correctly.

And here’s what I’ve noticed over and over again: People don’t actually hate social media. They hate how it makes them feel when they don’t feel confident using it. So they avoid it. Or overthink it. Or post something random at 11pm with a caption that says ā€œoops haven’t posted in a while lolā€ and hope for the best.

The reality is, social media is a a huge tool for businesses, especially small businesses. And when show up online for our businesses our audiences connect, trust and invest in us. And when we don’t show up…. a whole world of opportunities sits untapped, free, in front of us.

I’ve been teaching people how to use their phones to create content for years now. Not fancy gear. Not complicated setups. Just using what you’ve got, telling your story, and making it feel like you. Because that’s the bit that actually works. Not trends. Not copying someone else’s voice. Not trying to become a brand version of yourself you don’t recognise. Just you.

Over time, that naturally turned into a few different ways of working with people, because everyone starts in a different place.

Some people just need strong, honest photography - something they can actually use and feel confident sharing.

Some want help learning how to create their own content without it taking over their life.

Some want the whole thing taken off their plate so they can focus on literally anything else in their business.

And some just need a bit of guidance, simple tools, planning, direction, so they’re not sitting there thinking ā€œwhat the f**k do I postā€ every second Tuesday.

Same goal, different starting points. Because it’s never really been about doing more content. It’s about making it all feel a bit less like a guessing game… and a bit more like something that actually fits you and your business.

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